Sunday, October 12, 2025
Aunt Karen & Uncle Matty’s Speech
As we gather here today in a place Rocky loved so dearly—his grandparents’ homestead, now Aunt Karen and Uncle Matty’s home—we want to thank everyone for being here to honor his life and the many ways he enriched ours.
For those who may not know me, I’m Melissa, Rocky’s cousin and Mike and Natasha’s niece. I have the honor of reading this on behalf of my Aunt Karen and Uncle Matty, who are unable to do so themselves.
I was so excited when Natasha was expecting her second child, due on June 5th—my birthday. From that moment on, Rocky and I shared many birthdays together, and I’m beyond grateful I got to spend his last one with him.
When Rocky was little, his big sister Nikita loved watching *Bear in the Big Blue House*. The moon in the show was named Luna, and Nikita started calling me “Aunt Nuna.” From then on, Rocky called me Aunt Nuna too—it stuck for years.
I remember when Rocky was young and wanted to stay with us, but as soon as Natasha went to leave, he’d change his mind. After several trips from the car to the house, Natasha finally made him go home. He cried the whole drive from Lawrencetown to Musquodoboit Harbour, saying, “I want to stay with Aunt Nuna!”
As a boy, Rocky loved Spider-Man. I once found a bunch of Spider-Man toys at a yard sale and surprised him with them—he was absolutely thrilled.
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Rocky, our Rockstar—
The time went by far too quickly. We will forever cherish every moment and memory we shared with you. Being your Aunt Karen and Uncle Matty, and your godparents, was a true privilege. You felt like the son we never had.
You were always the first to jump up to greet us or say goodbye, giving us those big, warm hugs and that infectious smile. You always asked, “How was your week?” or “Have a great one.” We’ll miss those texts and calls checking in on us more than words can say.
One of my favorite memories was when you asked me to help coach your hockey team. I’ll never forget the game when there was a big scrum in front of your goalie—you stood out as the big guy. You grabbed another player by the jersey, looked him in the eye, and just shook your head. He dropped his arms and skated to the penalty box. You didn’t need words—your presence spoke for itself. You were a leader, and everyone saw it.
We’ll also miss our hockey rivalry—Bruins versus Penguins. For some reason, you usually had the last laugh. I’m sure your big sister will proudly carry on that battle.
Another special moment was when I passed along a gun that had been handed down to me from my dad. Not long after, you called me, so excited:
“Uncle Matty! I got one—my first deer! This gun is wicked—it dropped him!”
You were so proud, and so was I.
Even as you grew older, you never changed. You always greeted us with a hug and a kiss, no matter who was around. You always asked how we were doing and wished us a great day or week. That kind heart and genuine care are what made you so special.
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Rocky was our nephew and our godson—but more than anything, he was like a son to us. He had the brightest smile, a kind soul, and a deep love for his family. We were so proud of the respectful, hardworking, and caring young man he became.
We’re forever grateful for all the happy times and laughter we shared. It’s hard to imagine our family gatherings without him—checking in, joking, and just being there.
Let us honor Rocky by living as he did—with kindness, respect, and a willingness to lend a hand. Let’s smile, love deeply, and live life to the fullest, just as he did.
As we leave here today, may we take a moment to think about the impact we have on others—just as Rocky did every day.
Rocky, we hope you’re up there with Nanny and Poppy. We love you so very much and will miss you beyond words.
Thank you for the love, joy, and laughter you brought into our lives. The moments we shared are now precious memories we’ll cherish forever.
We will always remember you, Rocky, and we feel so blessed to have had 23 special years with you.
Until we meet again.
Love,
Aunt Karen & Uncle Matty
XOXO